The Six Stages of Retirement: From Planning to Purpose
See what the transition to life after work could look like for you.
Article published: July 31, 2025
Most people think of retirement as a singular life stage, the ultimate reward for decades of work and sacrifice. But it might be more accurate to view retirement as a series of stages, a dynamic journey of ups and downs, obstacles and opportunities.
In the 1970s, gerontologist Robert Atchley first proposed looking at retirement in phases. While the retirement landscape has become more complex since then, the core idea remains: The path to and through retirement can be an emotional and financial roller coaster. And enjoying a fulfilling retirement isn鈥檛 just about having enough money to be comfortable, it鈥檚 about finding meaning and purpose.
Although not everyone will experience all six stages below, knowing what could lie ahead can help you set expectations and prepare, both financially and psychologically.
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Stage 1 鈥 Pre-Retirement
In the years leading up to retirement, your vision and strategy for retirement will likely become more defined. You鈥檒l firm up thoughts about what you want your life to look like and who 鈥渞etirement you鈥 will likely be. Where will you live? How will you spend your days when you don鈥檛 have to get up to go to work? What new activities or hobbies do you want to try? Once you can answer questions like these, it鈥檚 easier to determine what your retirement might cost and when and how you鈥檒l be able to afford it.
What you might be feeling:
Picturing your retirement can require a mix of contemplation, reflection and focus. Anticipation and optimism may be building. At the same time, you might face a reality check when you think about whether you can finance the lifestyle you鈥檙e imagining for 20, 30 or more years. More than half of people saving for retirement say that outliving their assets is their number one retirement fear.
What you can do:
Besides continuing to save and invest toward the goals you鈥檝e set, you鈥檒l also need to make some key decisions that can have a lasting impact on your retirement 鈥 like how to take tax-smart withdrawals from your retirement accounts, when to begin taking your Social Security benefits and how you'll pay for health care, including where Medicare fits in. An experienced financial advisor can guide you through these choices, and help you protect against the biggest risks to your retirement savings, including longevity, taxes, inflation and market volatility.
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Stage 2 鈥 Retirement Day
This is it. The big moment is here. You鈥檝e decided you鈥檙e ready to take the leap and you鈥檝e crossed the threshold from working to retirement. As retirement begins, your calendar may include celebrations with friends, family and colleagues as you enjoy some well-deserved kudos.
What you might be feeling:
As a newly minted retiree, you may feel a sense of relief as work responsibilities fade away, along with excitement about all the possibilities ahead. But it鈥檚 natural to feel some anxiety too in the first weeks and months, as you find new routines and rhythms in your life. You鈥檒l also be adjusting from getting a regular paycheck to relying on your nest egg (and Social Security if you鈥檝e begun taking benefits) for income.
What you can do:
While the thought of not having to set the alarm clock anymore may be freeing, there could be some value to setting a schedule to establish new routines. Creating a retirement budget can also help ease some concerns you might have when shifting from a saving to a spending mindset early in retirement.
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Stage 3 鈥 The Honeymoon
For many people, the first years of retirement are like a vacation. It鈥檚 a time to enjoy the fruits of your labor and take advantage of the time on your hands to do things like travel, spend more time with family and take up new hobbies. Your calendar is wide open and you can fill it, well, pretty much however you鈥檇 like.听
What you might be feeling:
As the name implies, this stage can be full of joy and contentment as the retirement life you鈥檝e dreamt of becomes reality. Best of all, in these 鈥済o-go years鈥 of retirement, you鈥檙e most likely to still be healthy, so you can explore a wider range of activities and adventures.
What you can do:
In these early years of retirement, you can continue to save, before required minimum distributions听in some accounts kick in. There are also some financial pitfalls to watch out for. For example, a new lifestyle with new freedoms could lead to overspending if you鈥檙e not careful or steer off budget. But if you spend wisely 鈥 and luck and health cooperate 鈥 the honeymoon could last your entire retirement.
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Stage 4 鈥 Disenchantment
At some point, the excitement and wonder of the honeymoon phase can wear off. If it does, you might start to ask yourself if there isn鈥檛 more to this retirement thing. Maybe the activities you鈥檝e tried aren't as satisfying as you thought they would be, or you don鈥檛 quite feel connected to your new community if you鈥檝e moved away from your long-established network of family and friends. These attitudes may be compounded if you鈥檝e lost a spouse or partner with whom you shared your life and expected to have by your side in retirement.
What you might be feeling:
Several emotions can set in during this stage: Boredom. Loneliness. A feeling of 鈥渨hat now?鈥 You might feel a loss of identity in your post-career life and begin to miss the structure and purpose that your work once brought you.
What you can do:
Know that you鈥檙e not alone in feeling a bit disenchanted by retirement so far 鈥 many other retirees go through this stage. Think of it as a crossroads where you can find a new direction for your retirement that鈥檚 better for you. If you鈥檝e experienced the loss of a partner along the way, it can help to talk with a financial advisor about updating your financial plan and adjusting your strategy to reflect your new reality.
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Stage 5 鈥 Reorientation
This is a time of self-discovery, where you can redefine what retirement means to you. Now that you鈥檝e had some experience with retirement, what truly gives you meaning and purpose? How can you spend your time in a way that鈥檚 more fulfilling? You can 鈥渢ake two鈥 on retirement and try something different.
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In this stage, you might feel some confusion mixed with anticipation. It may take some time and experimentation to find a retirement identity that suits you. But that time can be full of enriching experiences that can help you learn and grow.
What you can do:
You might try volunteering, taking a class, starting a small business or working part time as you rethink goals and structure a new routine in retirement. It can also be a good idea to check in with a financial advisor to make sure that your lifestyle aligns with your budget and make any necessary adjustments.
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Stage 6 鈥 Stability and Fulfillment
You鈥檝e navigated through the initial excitement of retirement and made adjustments to create a lifestyle that works best for you. You've come to peace with who you are and what you want out of retirement.听听
What you might be feeling:
Now that you鈥檝e reached a place of stability, you鈥檙e probably feeling more satisfied and at ease. You鈥檝e found your retirement groove and settled into a routine that makes you happy and content.
What you can do:
Besides the emotional comfort of finding the right retirement fit, you may enjoy increasing financial confidence and security in this last phase. You鈥檒l still need to do things like take required minimum distributions from some retirement accounts and keep your estate plan up to date. But on a day-to-day basis, you can focus on staying healthy, socially connected and mentally sharp.
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Tips for Navigating the Psychological Process of Retirement
Everyone鈥檚 path through retirement is different. You may also choose a phased retirement, which could impact your progression through the stages of retirement. Whether you go through a few of the stages or all of them, it鈥檚 normal for the emotional adjustment to take some time. These tips can help you find your footing:
Start early
Retirement planning isn鈥檛 just about saving money. Spend time well before you retire thinking about how you鈥檒l find purpose and stay engaged. The earlier you explore this, the smoother your transition is likely to be.
Be open to evolving goals
Your priorities and interests could shift after you stop working 鈥 and that鈥檚 OK. Stay flexible and give yourself permission to explore new routines or redefine what a fulfilling retirement looks like.
Work with an advisor who understands your values
Aligning your financial strategy with your lifestyle and goals 鈥 whether that means spending time with family, travelling or volunteering 鈥 can give you more confidence and peace of mind.
Lean on your support network
Whether it鈥檚 a partner, friends, a therapist or a community group, don鈥檛 underestimate the power of connection. Sharing your experience with others can help normalize the ups and downs.
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Embrace Retirement as a Journey
We hope that knowing more about the stages of retirement can make the process easier for you. It may not always be what you expect 鈥 but it promises to be a time of growth and discovery. Our advisors can help you revisit your goals and keep them on track as you make your way to and through retirement. With a little help, you can make the most of the journey ahead.听
This material was prepared for educational purposes only. Although the information has been gathered from sources believed to be reliable, we do not guarantee its accuracy or completeness.
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